Lots of people think that if you lose something, that it will be lost forever. To me, nothing is ever really lost; the things you have or own will always be with you, maybe not physically but always in your memory. And yes, when you lose things like a family member, a pet or friend, it is comforting to look at the good times. But we also look at the bad times because talking from experience with my dads? death, looking at just the good things doesn?t help as much as looking at both. For instance, when I think of my mom, I don?t just look at the good she does for me, I look at the things I don?t like that she does, because if you only look at the good things it?s like looking at something fake or not true.
The way I look at my dad?s death is that I lost someone that I never really got to know as much as I wanted to. But in a way it made me look at life differently and see how everything is never perfect, life does not always go the way you want them too. Through my dad?s death,
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